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The attention deficit disorder in adults workbook. Dallas, TX: Taylor Publishing Company. Sexuality Comfort, A. (1991) The new joy of sex. New York: Crown. Kerner, I. She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman Nagoski, E. Come as You Are Ogden, G. The Return of Desire: A Guide to Rediscovering Your Sexual Passion Paget, L. How to Be a Great Lover Perel, E. Mating in Captivity Schnarch, D. Resurrecting Sex by David Schnarch PhD Stress Management Benson, H. (1975). The relaxation response. New York: William Morrow. Davis, M., Eshelman, E., & McKay, M. (1995). The relaxation & stress reduction workbook. (4th Ed.) Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications, Inc. Therapy Ehrenberg, O., & Ehrenberg, M. (1986). The psychotherapy maze: A consumer's guide to getting into and out of therapy. New York: Simon & Schuster. Time Management Covey, S. (1989). The 7 habits of highly effective people. New York: Simon & Schuster. Smith, H. (1994). The 10 natural laws of successful time and life management: Proven strategies for increased productivity and inner peace. New York: Warner Books. PODCASTS Conversations, Alanis Morrisette, interviews with great psychologists The Empathy Rising Podcast, Marissa Lawton Hidden Brain Invisibilia Is it bedtime yet? Mental health and the experience of being a parent Mind of State, psychology and sociopolitical issues The Moth, intriguing stories NPR LifeKit Oprah's Super Soul Sunday's Revisionist History Rough Translation The Space Between Us, from a psychoanalytic perspective Super Soul Conversations TED Radio Hour, ideas worth sharing This American Life, intriguing stories This Is Love, unique love stories Unruffled, Janet Lansbury Where Should We Begin? Esther Perel Your Anxiety Toolkit, Kimberley Quinlan

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